My mother is white and my father was black. I am not alone in this. I grew up in the Bronx, New York City. Born in 1967. A relatively safe time and place for a brown girl of ambiguous ethnicity. As the mother of two little brown girls, I like to believe that race doesn't matter much. But the election of Barack Obama woke me up. Ignorance is everywhere. Race labels ring in my ears. They stick and they stain. Even when they fade. This is my rant, from “post-racial America”. Hoping to shed some light.

Thursday, January 24, 2013

New Year, New Promise

This new year feels very young, but it’s loaded with history.
The 150th anniversary of the signing of the Emancipation Proclamation.
The 100th birthday of Rosa Parks.
The second inauguration of our first black president, coinciding with MLK Day.

I can’t help but hope that this last bit of synchronicity holds a certain power. A power I don’t dare name. A power that should act on our nation’s collective subconscious to revive Dr. King’s message of non-violence and universal love. This year, as our elected politicians confront the immediate challenge of gun control reform, I’m hopeful that Dr. King’s legacy will ring strong.

As a reminder to self, I looked up his speeches, in search of his unique poetry: the language that moved mountains. The two excerpts below stuck with me.

“Man was born into barbarism, when killing his fellow man was a normal condition of existence. He became endowed with a conscience. And he has now reached the day when violence toward another human being must become as abhorrent as eating another's flesh.”  - Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.  “Why We Can't Wait” 1963

“Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Hate multiplies hate, violence multiplies violence, and toughness multiplies toughness in a descending spiral of destruction. The chain reaction of evil -- hate begetting hate, wars producing more wars -- must be broken, or we shall be plunged into the dark abyss of annihilation.”  - Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. “Strength To Love” 1963

Forty years have passed since these orations, and the message still holds.
In the wake of the Newtown massacre, and the second inauguration of President Barack Obama, and the celebration of the birthday of Martin Luther King, this last week of January is heavy with promise. It’s time we evolve into a gentler nation.